Oppsss....a friend of mine just told me that her boyfriend proposed to her.....well, she is kinf of in dilemna...hmmm....guess what she needs to look into is wether these questions have got a " yes".

1. is he the one that she wishes to spend the rest of the life with?
2. is he mature enough to build a family with her? mature in the sense that he has his own carrer and he is independent.
3. does she feel secure being with the man. can the man offer her security even when the man is not beside her?
4. can she accept that the man is the father of her kids in the future?

hmmm.....the answer to these questions, seems to be easy and, got to think thoroughly. just can simply give a nod to the man and she will be in regret for the rest of her life. that is marriage, sound easy but gosh, responsibility counts!

good luck to her! and also to me......just hope that i will have the answer to these question in near future too!